marinabays Many people may say Our lives can be moved forward with “love”, which the love that everyone should know already that there are many forms. that we can love anyone But did you know that there is a form of love that people tend to overlook because it’s too close to each other? I don’t see why it’s important because I still don’t understand true love. Plus, it’s just a thin barrier that confuses selfishness. Such a form of love is “Love yourself”

However, in today’s era where our world is rich, we don’t know anything. It’s complicated and difficult to live life to survive. It’s more difficult to fight life, but life is not too much. The trend of loving yourself or Love Myself is becoming something that people are attracting a lot of attention from all over the world that has it all. because actually Loving yourself can be harder than loving someone else. We’ve all been accustomed to overlooking ourselves in order to love others first. From the concept of sacrificing one’s own interests for the common good But loving yourself and seeing only one’s own interests are different. This article will help everyone to understand the word “love yourself” better.

The campaign encourages people to love and be kind to themselves.

Believe it or not, there are many people today who are hurt because they love themselves too little. We can give love to anyone, but we overlook the good love for ourselves. What’s even worse is that many people try to destroy themselves for the love that can be given. with others Even though there are some things we don’t even need to change. To say that loving someone can make us change ourselves into a better person. Loving yourself can be a better person too. even if loving yourself It may be harder to love someone else. Because we have always overlooked ourselves in order to love others first.

Recently there has been a global campaign encouraging people to love and be kind to themselves. Especially among children and adolescents around the world is the campaign Love Myself by the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) in collaboration with the world’s most influential artist, BTS from South Korea, after BTS released an album called Love Yourself. There is a promotion of self-love. self esteem and accepting the differences of others through songs Be a voice for people to meet “The beginning of true love can be found by yourself” during the promotion of UNICEF’s Love Myself. During the Love Yourself tour in 2018-2019

If we love ourselves enough There will be nothing that can destroy us.

What people tend not to care much about is “yourself.” We rarely turn to ask questions to review how well we treat ourselves. Because we just keep living our lives according to the rhythm and opportunity that is going on. Pay attention, care, respect, only care for those around you for fear that others will see you as a bad person if you don’t treat them well. Doing good to others is already good and admirable and should continue. But if you treat others well, you must treat yourself well. If you believe that what you do to others is love Loving others, we can still love. So why can’t we love ourselves?

Giving love to yourself is no different from loving others. Just change the goal from other people to yourself instead. self love means People who know and understand themselves is their own person see self worth Confidence and faith in one’s own abilities Choose to fill only good feelings for yourself. and know how to make yourself happy Make yourself comfortable often. You can smile and laugh a lot instead of sitting stressed, sad, sad, sad, sad. So if we know how to love ourselves enough. No matter how bad things interfere There is nothing that can destroy us. because we will have good immunity have self-healing And there are ways to get yourself out of that bad spot.

Self-love is not selfish.

Self-love is different from selfishness. Selfishness is doing anything for the sake of personal gain, regardless of whether it hurts others or not. Although people who love themselves mainly focus on their own happiness. But they didn’t offend anyone to get that happiness. Not putting yourself at the center of everything. and snatched everything for himself. Or you have to choose the best for yourself only. So no one is in trouble because of them. Simply put, people who love themselves can create happiness. because they respect themselves Know who you are, what you want, and can fill it yourself without taking advantage of anyone. which requires a positive thinking and attitude

an anonymous writer “Falling in love with yourself first doesn’t make you vain or selfish, it makes you indestructible.” Falling in love with yourself doesn’t make you narcissistic or selfish. one But it will cause nothing to destroy you, so don’t interpret self-love as selfish. Because those who love themselves will not cause anyone trouble. Not hurting and destroying others like a selfish person. They can make both themselves and those around them happy together. Because if happiness is alone, it will not last.

self-love is the best love

Learning to love or learning to love someone to be Most of the time, we immediately skip the step of loving someone else. by overlooking the person closest to you like yourself Even though we are with ourselves all the time, we never begin to learn love from loving ourselves first. which if we do not love ourselves There is a chance that we will learn love wrongly or love without even knowing what love is. That kind of love cannot be sustained or stable. Because we still understand that fake love is true love. What kind of true love is? The heart pounding when seeing someone’s face, deep down, it may not always be love.

Therefore, if you want to be happy and fulfilled, you have to start with loving yourself first. know who you are Where is your self worth? What do you want? Keep adding value and develop yourself to be a better person than yesterday every day. Know how to create or fill yourself with little happiness. Take complete care of yourself physically and mentally on the basis of not harassing or hurting others. Seeing love to give to yourself as the best love. On the day that no one loves us or no one loves us In the end, we are left with ourselves. If you fill yourself up enough We may not have to seek love from anyone else. And when we learn to love Then we will understand how to pass on that love to others. ( marinabays )