Why do we have to “love ourselves before we think of loving others”?

king77 There is one person who is always by our side at every moment of our life. We met that person since birth. Let’s go through life together, both in good times and in sorrows. Until time has passed into old age, even if our parents, relatives or friends have all died. This person stays with us and stays by our side until the last breath is taken together. That person is “we”.

It is undeniable that we are the only person who is always together no matter the situation. Even if the whole world doesn’t love us or our loved ones fade away one by one. There will still be ourselves left. when we are so important to ourselves Have you ever considered it once to see if it’s important or not? And what rewards do you give yourself? Have you ever loved yourself? How good are you to yourself? Have you ever been happy with yourself? Or can you just rely on the love and happiness that others create?

saying that “Love yourself before you think of loving others.” That’s for us. “Start with yourself first.” Learn to love by giving good things to yourself before spreading love to others. Because people who love themselves to be able to create happiness to fill themselves up endlessly. There is so much love to give to others. It’s not doing something that you think is love in exchange for love back. when we still have to be with ourselves for a long time You must learn to love yourself. On the day that no one loves us And we won’t love ourselves any more. How can life go on? And I’m going to expect someone to love me If you want to be happy and fulfilled, you have to start with “Love yourself first before you think of loving others”.

Don’t expect love from others if you can’t even give it to yourself.

In the matter of love, sometimes there is an expectation involved. especially when we love others In his heart, he had already expected that person to come to love in return. which is possible both hope and disappointment But the question is, why do people expect to be loved by others when they have never loved themselves? Surprisingly, people are so busy demanding love from others. We have the freedom to control ourselves in everything. I can’t even force myself to truly love myself. So stop expecting someone else to love us. It’s not just that we can’t control others. But if it’s just your true self that you can’t love, then it seems that you are truly in love with someone else.

Good love that you can have without waiting to receive from anyone.

If we keep waiting for the love of others day by day without thinking of starting to love ourselves. It’s like the moment we’re waiting for others to love. No one loves us and we are not loved at all? Seriously, is it really that necessary to be loved by others? It really fills the gap completely, doesn’t it? Or should we stop waiting for love from other places and turn to love ourselves? Try to know and understand yourself as much as possible, not trying to give up on yourself for others to love. see self worth Believe and have faith in your own abilities, forgive yourself, fill yourself with good things, create happiness for yourself. Make yourself happy often. You can smile and laugh a lot. This is a good love that doesn’t have to depend on anyone.

may not understand the meaning of true love

With people who don’t even know how to treat themselves well, don’t know what self-love is. But try to show people that you can love others. I want myself to be a good person in the eyes of others. Tell me you’re going the wrong way Because it doesn’t make much sense. that with myself, I still don’t see the value don’t care but dare to tell others that what they are doing is because of love Are you sure that you really know love? It’s not possible to just love yourself. On the other hand, if we love ourselves enough. We will learn to love and build relationships with those we think we can go along with. and will know how to share the power of love from one’s own heart that is abundant with others No more striving for acceptance and love from others. ( king77 )